"Help Yourself"
Unfortunately these two words tend to describe the generally selfish
and materialistic culture in which most of us live. They result not in
self-help but in dependency. Our education and our role models do not
encourage us to help ourselves to grow, change and expand our
capacities as human beings. Real self-help means recognising that no
one else is responsible for our thoughts and feelings, and that we are
only ever victims because we choose to be. Our destiny is always and
only in our own hands - despite all apparent evidence which may
indicate otherwise. Learning to help ourselves is also a prerequisite
to extending a hand of assistance to others. We all need a leg up from
time to time, but once there, we are always on our own.
Be Enthusiastic
We often use 'complaining' as a social tool to share experiences or as a method to take action.
But when we turn the complaining into positive comments,
it becomes a lot easier for people to listen to us.
And we might just be surprised by how much better life is!
If you're tired and have to go to work, reframe your complaints: "Even though I'm tired, I'm going to accomplish a lot of today."
Replace: "Oh no- I have to cook again!!!" to
"I'm really looking forward to trying out this new recipe."
Your Divine Friend
DR.BK.Satyanarayan
Reframe Your Thoughts | Diane Sawyer and Marcia Perkins
Diane Sawyer and Marcia V. Perkins, experienced business leaders, share a powerful tool to help women confront their internal barriers and get out of their own way.
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