It is jealousy, possessiveness and loss of control the reason for the mother to fight with the daughter in law.
Up till the marriage, the mother was in control of the affairs. The son went to the mother for love and affection.
With the wife coming into the scene the control, love and affection all went to the wife.so the mother feels she is no more wanted and that is because of the wife. So the mother is angry with the son's wife who is responsible for the loss of all this, so she fights with the daughter in law.
The only answer to live alone out of the sight of the mother. Give her due share of the motherly love.Visit the mother as often as possible and give her the impression you continue to love her and want her,
This should reduce fights.
Regards
On Fri, 29 Nov 2019 at 11:59, sewak ram usss8183@yahoo.com [nidokidos] <nidokidos@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
No young husband .No young wife is capable of taking care of each other and children on their own and NO young couple knows anything about relationship ,other than having sex .Yes in laws ,if also idiots adds fuel to the fire .We need caring and sensible in laws .Not the brainless jealous greedy mentally deranged in laws U might have married intoSo stop being a jerk u too ,just because ur in laws were bad .On Wednesday, November 27, 2019, 11:10:15 PM MST, savit savithri_gopalan@yahoo.com [nidokidos] <nidokidos@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
Always the mother of the boy blamed.nIn In Modern India especially in the south girl's momInterferes in the family matter of her daughter. She listens to her momthat creates lot of confusion. Both in laws should stay away.Even thebrother influences his sister in money matters .Any in law from either sides enters they create havoc and ruin .Who is listening.? Damage is done the girl is separated from herHusband and family!!!Very SadSavithri Gopalan
On Tue, 26 Nov 2019 at 7:52 PM, M H M Farook mhmfarook@gmail.com [nidokidos]<nidokidos@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
It is very simple. Find a house of your own even for rent and live away from your mother and your mother in law. Visit your mother as often as possible..Don't tell her anything about your wife and anything about your mother to your wife. Life will be peacefulIf you want to know why this is. Write to me.There a valid reason behind this..RegardsFarookOn Tue, 26 Nov 2019 at 12:51, Mohammad Khalil sizham_2001@yahoo.com [nidokidos] <nidokidos@yahoogroups.com> wrote:Hi Mr,you need a some acting for your problems solution. if you do a job then acting about your job. for example when you enter your home, you realize and show to your mom and wife that you are so worried and in tension about job or business.. and some time very sad about your health. its all depends on your acting or performance... actually both (mom and wife) are loves you so much.. when they listen and feel your problems, both forgotten her blames... in short if you need a relax atmosphere in your home. you could not laugh at your own home.Muhammad KhalilSenior AutoCAD/DraughtsmanBAK CONSULTANTING ENGINEERSLAHORE, PAKISTANCell # +92 332 6274841On Monday, November 25, 2019, 05:12:29 PM GMT+5, chudhary_ali3892@yahoo.com [nidokidos] <nidokidos@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
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My wife and mother get into problem alk the time...i m tired of this....i cant work fulllest....how ever i try to keep them cool and good terms...i get disappointed....In everyaction they come up and finds a problem woth other...each one belive that other is doong it purposelly and has bad intention....there is no incident in the past that has led to this kind of feelings in them...on turn they are spoilong my and my fathers life.....it is not first time..i have seen similar problems between my mother and.my grand mother....What is all this?? I cant figure it out...Plz help meeeeeeee
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