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Why I Am Incapable Of Loving Someone!

LOVE. To me, it's just a word because ever since I started looking for its meaning, there are just complications that I have come across.

Coming from a family where your parents were married to each other because their family asked them to and spending your whole childhood among compromises and sacrifices doesn't leave you much inclined towards love. Isn't it?

When I grew up a little and started watching all those love stories and ROM-coms, I couldn't relate to any of them. But was it my fault? No, because I wasn't brought up in a family where love held that much importance.

It looked like being with someone is more about running a life and not about love. Though I completely couldn't understand that concept, I couldn't understand love too.

After reaching my teens, all I could see around me were my friends dating people and talk about how love is changing their life. Well, those guys seemed to be too much in love and that made me wonder where I lack. Just because I was intrigued to know how it all works, I started dating too. Guess what? I blew it up and the guy literally told me that I am emotionally unavailable.

You know why? Because I treated him just the way I treat everyone else in my life. I didn't know that I have to give him extra attention or I need to be all lovey dovey to him so that he can fall in love with my words. All I knew is that he is just another friend of mine who is a little more special. But was I supposed to change the way I behave for him? No, I didn't think so.

The whole concept of being in love and treating this one person in the most special way of this world isn't something I am still able to comprehend. To me, if I am meant to be with someone, I would be happier if I get to be myself in front of him. If I can't be myself, then seriously I don't think I have any space for love in my life.

I don't have any hesitation in saying that I will always suck at love because the kind of conditions it comes with are too hard for me to handle. So, instead of changing myself, I would wait for someone who understands me

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Lifepartner : A must read for all
Pls take time to read in ur free time…..

FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER

Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A.

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no
one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%,
it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to
finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married,
they'll say: "We're in love"; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people
make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on
love. Though this may sound "not politically correct", there's a
profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result
of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the
love will come. Let me say it again: "You can't build a lifetime
relationship on love alone"; You need a lot more!!!

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about
finding and keeping a life partner.

Click here to read questions and answers

http://www.nidokidos.org/threads/5958

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Posted by: Kakdi Raita <kakdiriata@gmail.com>

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