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Click here to watch full song video in HDThese Things Are Stopping You From Falling In Love!
No matter what your current relationship status may be, you have always been a little paranoid about the idea of falling in love.
If you go into self analysis mode, you'll realise that there are no substantial reasons for you to be afraid, you're just being 'you'.
But you know what? Feeling that way is absolutely okay because, turns out, you aren't the only one who feels that way. There are lots of people sailing in the same boat.
And while some of them may have their own specific reasons, most of them actually have the same, albeit common reasons for feeling that way, with these seven being the most prominent:
1. "What if someone better is still waiting for me out there?"
When you start developing feelings foe a particular person, you immediately stop yourself from taking it any further you just can't help but wonder, "What if someone better is still out there?"
While it's good that you don't want to settle down for anything less, it's also important to be a little bit more realistic in life.
2. You don't find yourself to be 'good enough'.
You believe that there's something wrong with you and that whatever it is, it makes you feel you are less lovable.
And if someone does say that he or she love you, it just sounds almost unreal to you. Trust me love, you are lovable, desired and wanted, just like the seven billion people on this planet!
3. You only end up liking those people who don't like you back.
Though this happens to most of us, some of us actually end up making a habit of it.
If you're only going to fall in love or get attracted to people who won't be reciprocating your feelings, you'll be waiting your entire life for a person who just isn't going to be yours and you'll never be able to love someone who'll actually love you back.
4. You are scared of commitment.
Commitment issues - a lot of people are afraid of commitment and you just happen to be one of them. Every time someone comes close to you, you push them away because committing to someone is something you just aren't ready for.
5. You love yourself.
While some people may call it selfishness, I tend to look at it as self-love. After all, there's no harm in feeling complete in your own company and that's also probably why you don't feel there's any space for someone else in your amazing life.
6. You are scared of losing your friends.
Some people are so close to their friends and are so happy in their company that they don't want a boyfriend or girlfriend to come in and change that equation. Perhaps your FOMO on friends is, in your mind, saving you from falling in love?
7. You feel like all the fun in life will come to an end.
A lot of people think that when a potential boyfriend/girlfriend enters their lives, they have to change their lifestyle.
In more ways than one, that's true. But who knows? Maybe that change in your lifestyle may end up being a good one? You'll never know without trying, would you?
Posted by: Kakdi Raita <kakdiriata@gmail.com>
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