Q: How to deal with rude behavior?
Sri Sri: What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?
- Get upset
- React rudely back
- Get frustrated
- Run-away and avoid the person or the situation
- Blame the person
- Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
- It indicates the intensity of their commitment
- It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
- It projects the up-bringing of the person
- It indicates a behavioral pattern
- It shows lack of knowledge
- It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
- It shows you behavior to avoid
- It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
- It strengthens your mind
- It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
Communication Tips: 3 Ways To Deal With Rude People
There are rude, inconsiderate people in this world - those types talking loudly while on their smartphone while waiting in line, or the ones who cut the line, or the snappy comments no one asked for, etc. But everyone has bad days - so this video is about dealing with outright rudeness and about shifting your perception so you can deal with other peoples' moodswings with calm and grace. Someone's rudeness means nothing about you - and you can deal with it successfully and politely, using manners and eloquence, and direct communication. Don't be afraid, be confident - but keep calm, and everything will be alright.
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