Wednesday, October 2, 2019

[nidokidos] Contemplation: October 03, 2019: Build Bridges

 

Image may contain: sky, ocean, bridge, cloud, outdoor and water


The Ambassador International Bridge:  Suspension bridge that connects Detroit, Michigan, in the United States, with Windsor, Ontario, Canada.



Build Bridges

Even when another person seems a world apart from you, don't stop looking for the bridge.


To get an opportunity to do something difficult is to gain a quality forever. 


Most times, when we are faced with a difficult task, we tend to get confused and afraid. But, this does not allow us to use the resources at our disposal in the right way. On the other hand, when we look at it as an opportunity, we are able to not only complete the task, but also discover a new quality of ours. Recognition by others, may or may not come, but that will not bother us. Today I will take up something that I have never done before. I will either do it by myself or will take the help of others. To take help from others itself is an art. So either way, I will be richer with one new quality by the time I finish the task.



Spiritual Vision


A simple definition of 'spiritual vision' is that I see the best in others. A parameter of proving to myself that I have a spiritual vision and I am seeing the best in others is that I naturally thank and praise rather than criticize those with whom I interact at home or at the workplace on a daily basis - even though I may see obvious negative characteristics in them and experience negative behavior from them. Keep a daily chart of the three points, for three people close to you, below for one week. Every night, fill this chart up for the day that's just gone by.

1. Name of person and relationship
2. How did I thank or praise him/her?
3. What was this person's response?

Remember that although you may be constantly positive with others, constantly seeing their original spiritual qualities, it may take time for your positive energy to transform them and for them to start transmitting positive energy back to you and start behaving positively with you. At the end of the week, check what benefits did you and others experience from this exercise.




Soul Sustenance 


Busy – Press The Stop Button! (Part 3) 

To rise above the monotonous and busy existence explained in the last two days' messages, we all require a regular dosage of newness to keep our hearts and minds fresh. How can we define newness? It is a change of thoughts, feelings, words, actions, circumstances – when all or some of these deviate from the normal or are new, they give us an experience of joy. On a physical level we go on a holiday or a party, watch a movie, etc., all of these and many more such activities explained earlier in this message series, achieve the purpose mentioned above. We then get back to our daily routine of thoughts and actions, with more freshness, which makes the routine more interesting. 

On a spiritual level, to become silent, to be still in the ocean of hectic, noisy action is a choice many people are now making. When this is achieved, this stillness acts on the mind like oxygen, giving the breath to both understand and enrich life. Of course, action is a necessity, an expression of ourselves through time, relationships and the roles we play. However, if we do not sometimes stop and take a breath of silence, then the mind begins to suffocate, thoughts speed like bullet trains and the brain feels as if it is in a pressure cooker. Emotions erupt and react like volcanoes, eyes become dizzy with mountains of information and the head feels like a rollercoaster. This is stress. The mind needs to come up for air, to leave the jungle of pressure, deadlines and speed and slow down and find the point of silence within. Also a daily dose of new and different spiritual knowledge at the start of the day does the work of newness and helps us rise above the monotony. It rekindles our creative spirit. Newness in our thoughts then flows into our feelings, beliefs, attitudes, personalities or natures, perceptions, actions, interactions, relationships, etc. bringing newness in all of them and removing the stagnancy of the regular routine. Also feeding spiritual knowledge to the mind benefits silence or meditation immensely, because meditation, which is not just a process of reducing the mind to a nil stage but the creation of positive, constructive thoughts to take the mind to a positive experience of peace and bliss, can then become an interesting, new and creative exercise each time one practices it. Spiritual knowledge is the foundation of good meditation or silence. 



Message for the day 


To be free from wants is to be free from waste. 

Expression: The one who is free from wants is the one who is free from expectations. When there are no expectations, there is not too much thought about what is not there or what should be there. Since the mind is free from all these kind of waste thoughts, whatever is done is the best. 

Experience: When I am free from wants or desires, I am able to always remain content. I can then appreciate and enjoy everything that comes my way, and do not expect anything both from situations and people. So the mind is free from waste thoughts and questions. 

__._,_.___

Posted by: Satya <worldprince1@yahoo.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (1)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] Good morning message

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: "Hanasbey, Geoffrey" <hanasbeyg@irc.gov.pg>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (95)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] have you seen the real tarzan?

 

i dont remember exactly , but i joined this group 10 to 15 years ago

-------



__._,_.___

Posted by: Joesalafi <Joesalafi@aol.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (129)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] Good morning message

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: Naveed Ashfaqe <naveed.ashfaqe2001@gmail.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (94)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] what to you think who will win this war?

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: Naveed Ashfaqe <naveed.ashfaqe2001@gmail.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (1)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] Good Morning

 


__._,_.___

Posted by: Hitesh Shah <confusdesi@gmail.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (30)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] funny video compilation - download video

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: Yogita Malandkar <yogitamalandkar@gmail.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (20)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] a page from History

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: Salman AlMahoozi <salmahoozi@gmail.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (2)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

[nidokidos] too much for some people

 
__._,_.___

Posted by: Gulzar Ali <gulzarali66@yahoo.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (93)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

[nidokidos] Contemplation: October 02, 2019: Balance

 

Image may contain: cloud, sky, outdoor and nature


Balance

Maintain the balance of responding to situations with a cool head and to people with a warm heart.



Why do most of us find resolving situations quite difficult?

Because we're in the heart of the situation and part of the equation, we're carrying a lot of 'baggage'. This affects our ability to come up with the correct resolution.

So, learn to step out of the equation. Detach yourself from your emotions and your history with the story. Then you're more likely to see the equation clearly and, as a result, be able to resolve the situation.


The Power To Withdraw (cont.)


When I am too open to the world around me, it's as though the arrows of negativity that fly around can easily penetrate my being, so that I lose my power. What others say and do quickly affects me, and I become reactive. This causes a build-up of stress, and eventually burnout, which makes me feel my only option, is to retire from situations altogether, which is not always possible.

I don't want to react; I want to act with concern and reason and effectiveness. When I develop the habit of making a momentary withdrawal in situations of danger, I'm better able to achieve this. Turning within, I'm able to remember my link with the divine, the link of love, the link that fills me with peace and wisdom and good wishes. It's like an exercise: going inwards i.e. connecting with the self, then upwards towards the Supreme and then outwards (in the field of karma). Doing this repeatedly through the day as a discipline as well as at times of danger, I'll keep moving forward with stability and strength.

In order to maintain this power, I have to put a high value on introversion. If I'm too extrovert, I'll become caught up in external circumstances, and won't have power to withdraw available to me at the moment of need.



Soul Sustenance 


Busy – Press The Stop Button! (Part 2) 

Technology can be our best friend, and technology can also be the biggest party spoiler of our lives. It interrupts our own story, interrupts our ability to have a thought or a daydream, to imagine something wonderful and create something beautiful, because we're too busy bridging the walk from the cafeteria back to the office on the cell phone, one of the favourite pastimes of our current lifestyle. 

We've talked of being busy for so long that we've forgotten that being busy was never the goal. We are not on this earth to be busy. We are here to build relationships, experience life, go places, create things, help others, or whatever else you decide. Our reasons for being will all be different but if you reflect deeply, you will realize and also feel that none of us feel we are here simply to be busy. But this thinking has lead us to think being busy is good, no matter what we're busy with. Being busy is not the way we should measure our worth and being busy is a not a worthy goal for any of us. Before you know it, you might get caught up being busy doing worthless things. Sadly the business world continues to train us this way as employees are expected to put in 8-10 hours of work a day even though on some days they might have only 2 or 4 hours of productive things to do. Poor training! 

God's plan for enlarging and creating His beautiful kingdom of heaven, a new world order of peace, love and happiness of the future is so simple - one person telling another about God, the Savior and the Liberator i.e. giving the Supreme's message of joyful, loveful and spiritual soul-conscious existence to each one. Yet we're busy and full of excuses. Just remember, someone's eternal destiny is at stake, that someone who is to receive the message from you.. The joy you'll have when you see that person in a liberated and joyful state not only here but in that kingdom of heaven being created will far exceed any discomfort you felt in sharing the gospel or message with him by taking out time from your busy existence. 

(To be continued tomorrow …) 

Message for the day 

To stamp every thought with the stamp of determination is to be victorious. 

Expression: When there is determination in thoughts, there is naturally the ability to give the best in spite of all the obstacles. Situations will not deter such a person from achieving what he set out to. And so there is naturally constant victory for the one who is always determined. 

Experience: When there is determination in my thoughts, I am never afraid, whatever happens. In fact obstacles only serve to strengthen determination. I never give up what I have started. It is determination that enables me to add power to my thoughts and make them practical. 

__._,_.___

Posted by: Satya <worldprince1@yahoo.com>
Reply via web post • Reply to sender • Reply to group • Start a New Topic • Messages in this topic (1)
===================================================
NidokidoS Group for best of forwarded mails
To join us , send an email to 
nidokidos-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


Be the part of Nidokidos , Join our Forum
http://tinyurl.com/emailforum


to share your emails with us, send them at
nidokidos@yahoogroups.com

===================================================

.

__,_._,___

Re: [nidokidos] Request to Unsubscribe my ID from nidokidos

  Sent from my iPhone On 26 Dec 2019, at 19:27, m.massih@yahoo.com wrote:  Sent from my iPhone ...