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Triggers

November 4, 2013
To kill a conversation use trigger words that activate emotional reaction. Of course, there are positive, loving triggers, but the word 'trigger' is generally used to indicate a source that sends one or more people into a negative reaction. An extreme trigger example would be in making love to a beloved, and calling them someone else's name, unless that's part of the thrill, will likely get an emotional reversal reaction! Every one has a 'trigger' to one degree or another to release a negative reaction/response. Words or certain actions are like 'pulling a trigger', creating an involuntary ending, or derailing an otherwise smooth connection.

''NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming, a name that encompasses the three most influential components involved in producing human experience: neurology, language and programming. The neurological system regulates how our bodies function, language determines how we interface and communicate with other people and our programming determines the kinds of models of the world we create. Neuro-Linguistic Programming describes the fundamental dynamics between mind (neuro) and language (linguistic) and how their interplay affects our body and behavior (programming).''

Ultimately, each of us is the caretaker of how we react/respond to the stimuli of words, feelings, actions or not, etc. Most live in a belief system bubble that often is closed to information to further open the mind. In a sense, we 'chip' or 'NLP' our selves to behave this way or that to stimuli. It's always, your choice to be stuck in mind/emotional nets that make you part of the 'sheeple stable' that open minded, inquiring types have to tip toe around to avoid serious reactions.

Part of the art of communication is to learn to not have 'negative triggers', where you can be controlled, with one to a few words. There are NO WORDS that should always 'trigger' the awake, tempered person. All fears of what to say around an aware person are automatically eliminated. People who are close, particularly those in love, should automatically know that all is said with love. If not in that space, it's best to find ways to open the heart and intimacy more where all is an open book. The deeper the love the greater the mutual openness. The art of communication comes from the heart, and at the same time is facilitated by a natural sense of humor. If necessary, develop a sense of humor to compliment communication when appropriate.

Let openness and sensitivity be the opening trigger to the magic of love! Convert all negative triggers to a choice of opening your heart, and using 'skillful means' of responding.

Arhata

The Science of Happiness
Soul Pancake's experiment in happiness is bound to make you smile, and maybe even pick up the phone.
Turns out it takes more than just being grateful to increase happiness

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[nidokidos] The World Is Obsessed With Facebook

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The World Is Obsessed With Facebook

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[nidokidos] Aphorisms

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Aphorisms

1. The nicest thing about the future is . . .
that it always starts tomorrow.

2. Money will buy a fine dog . . .
but only kindness will make him wag his tail.

3. If you don't have a sense of humor . . .
you probably don't have any sense at all.

4. Seat belts are not as confining . . .
as wheelchairs.

5. A good time to keep your mouth shut is . . .
when you're in deep water.

6. How come it takes so little time for a child who is afraid of
the dark . .
to become a teenager who wants to stay out all night?

7. Business conventions are important . . .
because they demonstrate how many people a company can
operate without.

8. Why is it that at class reunions . . .
you feel younger than everyone else looks?

9. Scratch a cat (or dog) . . .
and you will have a permanent job.

10. No one has more driving ambition than the teenage boy
(or girl?) . . .
who wants to buy a car.

11. There are no new sins . . .
the old ones just get more publicity.

12. There are worse things than getting a call for a wrong
number at 4 a.m. . .
like, it could be the right number.

13. No one ever says "It's only a game" . . .
when their team is winning.

14. I've reached the age where . . .
'happy hour' is a nap.

15. Be careful about reading the fine print . . .
there's no way you're going to like it.

16. The trouble with bucket seats is that . . .
not everybody has the same size bucket.

17. Do you realize that, in about 40 years . . .
we'll have thousands of old ladies running around with tattoos?
(And rap music will be the Golden Oldies!)

18. Money can't buy happiness . . .
but somehow it's more comfortable to cry in a Cadillac than
in a Yugo.

19. After 60, if you don't wake up aching in every joint . . .
you're probably dead.

20. Always be yourself because the people that matter don't
mind . . .
and the ones that mind don't matter.

21. Life isn't tied with a bow . . .
but it's still a gift.

REMEMBER....
POLITICIANS AND DIAPERS
MUST
BE CHANGED OFTEN AND FOR THE
SAME REASON

Inspirational Quotes from the 'BIG' who started 'small'
don not consider yourself small , if you work hard you can be big star

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[nidokidos] 10 WAYS TO LOVE

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10 WAYS TO LOVE

LISTEN
Without Interrupting
SPEAK
Without Accusing
GIVE
Without Sparing
PRAY
Without Ceasing
ANSWER
Without Arguing
SHARE
Without Pretending
ENJOY
Without Complaint
TRUST
Without Wavering
FORGIVE
Without Punishing

PROMISE

Without Forgetting

Love
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To Do List
To Do List is a personal project about the things we cherish and aspire to do in our every day lives.

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Friday, November 8, 2013

[nidokidos] It's simple thing to do..... Do it now

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Hugging Is...
Hugging is healthy! It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduces stress, and induces sleep. It is invigorating, rejuvenating, and has no unpleasant side effects. Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.

Hugging is all natural! It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly, and 100% wholesome.

Hugging is the ideal gift! Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping and, of course, fully returnable.

Hugging is practically perfect! No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof, and nontaxable.

Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers! When we open our hearts and arms, we encourage others to do the same. Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you'd like to say? Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping someone else will ask first? Please don't wait! Initiate!
Written by: Charles Faraone

FREE HUGS in JAPAN (Tokyo)

Freehugs, It's a way to make people smile! support for the free hugs campaign

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[nidokidos] Creative Mom Turns Her Baby Naptime Into Dream adventures

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Creative Mom Turns Her Baby Naptime Into Dream adventures

After her post was met with enormous success and popularity, Bored Panda reached out to her and spoke to her about her wonderful works. Here's what she had to say about her sources of inspiration and about the ideas behind her cheerful and creative works:

"I am very grateful to have the opportunity to share with the readers not only the pictures I have taken, but more importantly, the inexpressible love, joy and pride as a mother while creating this special album for my son Wenge

cute baby sleep
there is no such a feeling when a child sleeps

watch the cuteest video ever

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[nidokidos] Daily Positive Thoughts

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Daily Positive Thoughts

Resist Not

Have you ever noticed that resistance leads to persistence? And behind all resistance is self-created fear.

The only way to relax and stay relaxed is acceptance. You don't have to agree, or follow, or condone, but acceptance means you begin any interaction with a serenity which invites others to engage with you. And out of engagement comes the satisfaction of creative expression and an enriching relationship. That's relaxation in action!

Our Thoughts make the World

We are what we think, all that we are arises with our thoughts," said the Buddha, "with our thoughts, we make the world." In other words, you
are constantly creating your circumstances by the way you think. It's as if you had a guided missile in your unconscious that relentlessly
directs you towards its target, and the target is whatever your thoughts dwell on. Think doom and gloom, and that's what you'll get.
Focus on happiness and optimism, and they're already yours. Negative thought frustrate the universal forces that can create a happy, healthy
and successful life. They keep our true potential trapped in a mental prison of our own making.

Freedom From The Dependency On The New - cont.

In the market, there always appears the novelty (newness) of the same product wrapped differently. There always seems to be a new soft drink, a new kind of chocolate, but they are really the same products as always. The only thing that changes is the packaging and their image. Some children, whenever they go to the market, want the new kinds of biscuits, pastries, etc. They always want new things that then stay in the fridge. We encourage this by telling little children that happiness is stimulation, the new is stimulating, and comes from the outside or you get it from the outside. We create an addiction to the new; in this case, to the newness of the packaging. What kind of newness is that!

When, in order to be happy, you need to go shopping, you try to fill yourself with something that isn't you. You try to find wholeness by filling your life with material things. A soul who is spiritually awake knows that they are already complete and they do not need to depend on the purchase of something new regularly for feeling full internally. The only effort is in remembering and reconnecting with their whole self, their complete self; reconnecting with their inner treasures of spiritual wisdom, virtues and powers.

Soul Sustenance

Overcoming Fears Connected With Negative Past Experiences (cont.)

The work with oneself to see what aspects of your past burden you and coming to terms with those aspects, requires silence, reflection and meditation. When you come to terms with your own past, you can let go of it and be free of it, not be afraid that the past will come back to you. If not, sometimes, it is like a shadow that follows you. If your house was robbed once, the shadow follows you that, perhaps, you might be robbed again. If they hurt you, you fear it will happen again. Sometimes that experience presents itself in dreams, in the subconscious or in present attitudes. Reliving the past in your mind, you do not fully enjoy the present. You have to accept the pieces of your past so that they do not continue to generate upsets. Accept that you had to live through them and live the present with a constructive vision of the future.

In the above context, it helps to write letters to God about your experiences. The exercise of sharing them with God in writing brings clarity inside you and helps you to bring the spiritual light and might in your life in order not to be burdened by unnecessary experiences, unhappiness or grief. Have you ever written to God? You could do it at night and tell Him the things that affected you or that you have learned. You can tell Him the things or intimate feelings that other people perhaps wouldn't understand or wouldn't be there to listen to. You could also talk to Him about all that you question, and you do not have an answer to. And the following morning, when you meditate and study a little bit of spiritual knowledge, you often receive answers.

Message for the day

To be clean means to be a success.

Projection: We usually interact with others based on our past experiences with them. Even if there has been a single negative experience with someone, we keep that in our mind and all our responses are based on that experience. We are, then, not able to be fully successful in our relationships.

Solution: In order to succeed in our relationships we need to keep our mind free from the experiences of the past. We can do this when we look at the uniqueness and speciality of each individual that we come into contact with. This practice makes us respect all and be free from the negativity of the past.

Light in the darkness
Dont juidge someone by appearances Awarded as "The best international short film"
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[nidokidos] Banta goes to a bar

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Banta goes to a bar

**Banta Singh walks into a bar in London, orders 3 glasses of beer and sits
in the backyard of the room, drinking a sip out of each one in turn.

When he finishes, he comes back to the bar counter and orders 3 more. The
bartender asks him, "You know, beer goes flat after I fill it in the glass;
it would taste better if you buy one at a time."

Banta Singh replies, "Well, you see, I have two brothers. One is in
Dubai, the other in Canada and I'm here in London.When they left home, we
promised that we'll drink this way to remember the days when we drank
together."

The bartender admits this is a nice custom and leaves it at that.

Banta Singh became a regular in the bar and would always drink the same
way. He'd order 3 Beers and drink them in turn.

One day, he came in and ordered only 2 Beers. All the other regulars
noticed and fell silent.

When he got back to the bar for the second round, the bar tender says, "I
don't want to intrude on your grief, but I wanted to offer my sincere
condolences on your great loss."

Banta Singh looked confused for a moment, and then he laughed.... "Oye,
there is nothing to feel sorry,"
he said. "Everyone's fine; both my brothers are alive.