Thursday, February 28, 2013

[nidokidos] Did I marry the right person?

 

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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"


I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.


Here's the answer.


EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.


Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.


But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labour of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.


Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. . Not just a feeling ..

Remember this always

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."


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[nidokidos] Potato Chips

 

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Potato Chips

Take 60 seconds to read this wonderful story. It will give you time
to settle your brain, gather your thoughts, calm down and be blessed.

A little boy wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where
God lived, so he packed his suitcase with a bag of potato chips and a
six-pack of juices and started his journey.

When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old man. He was
sitting in the park, just staring at some pigeons. The boy sat down
next to him and opened his suitcase. He was about to take a drink
from his juices when he noticed that the old man looked hungry, so
he offered him some chips. He gratefully accepted it and smiled at
him.
His smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he
offered him juice. Again, he smiled at him. The boy was
delighted!

They sat there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.
As twilight approached, the boy realized how tired he was and he got
up to leave; but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned
around, ran back to the old man, and gave him a hug. He gave him his
biggest smile ever..

When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his
mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked
him, "What did you do today that made you so happy?"

He replied, "I had lunch with God." But before his mother could
respond, he added, "You know what? He's got the most beautiful smile
I've ever seen!"

Meanwhile, the old man also radiant with joy, returned to his home.
His son was stunned by the look of peace on his face and he asked,
"dad, what did you do today that made you so happy?"

He replied "I ate potato chips in the park with God." However, before
his son responded, he added, "You know, he's much younger than I
expected."

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word,
a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring,
all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime!
Embrace all equally!
Have lunch with God.......bring chips.

 

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[nidokidos] 10 most beautiful tree tunnels in the world

 

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                        10 most beautiful tree tunnels in the world 


Trees, The longest-living organisms on Earth, beautify and protect our environment by providing color,
shelter, and shade. They renew our air supply by soaking up carbon dioxide and producing oxygen.

 

10. Cherry Blossom Tunnel, Germany

 




Each spring, a peaceful street, located in the German city of Bonn, transforms into an enchanting cherry blossom tunnel. Photographer Marcel Bednarz captured this stunning sight of cherry blossoms in full bloom. He explained to me that there are actually two streets in Bonn where cherry trees are planted, but the one you see in the above picture is called Heerstraße. As you may know, the average cherry blossom lasts only between 7 and 10 days, depending on weather conditions. 


 

09. Rua Gonçalo de Carvalho, Brasil



 

Number nine goes to Brazil's green tunnel from Porto Alegre, Rua Gonçalo de Carvalho.
According to a decree signed in 2006 by former mayor Joseph Fogaça,
this beautiful street is part of the country's historical, cultural, ecological and environmental heritage.  There are more than one hundred towering Tipuana (Rosewood) trees along Rua Gonçalo de Carvalho.
The great shade trees stretch over three city blocks, which is a good thing for the city's overall health.
Did you know that trees, properly planted around buildings, can reduce air conditioning demands by up to 30%?

 

 

08. Autumn Tree Tunnel, USA



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Photographed in glorious autumn colors by Kevin McNeal, this tree tunnel is simply astonishing!   The picture was taken on the way up to Smuggler's Notch, a Vermont state park.  The eye-catching foliage starts changing its color in the northern region, in response to many environmental factors, and spreads south as the fall season advances.

 

 

07. Ginkgo Tree Tunnel, Japan



 

Gingko biloba is a highly venerated tree in Japanese culture. Six ginkgo trees survived the Hiroshima bombing, continuing to grow despite facing so many challenges, and are still alive today.
Therefore, the Japanese regard the gingko as "the bearer of hope".
It is also known as "the survivor" or "the living fossil."

Around 65,000 ginkgoes grace Tokyo's streets, gardens and parks today.
According to some people who visited Tokyo, the tunnel you see in the above picture is located in the outer garden of Meiji Shrine.

 

06. Yew Tree Tunnel, UK



 

The medieval Aberglasney House features one of the most beautiful gardens in Wales, UK.  They have been an inspiration to writers since 1470. The Yew Tunnel is a popular tourist attraction in this area. Believe it or not, it took nine years of pruning to restore this unique archway. "Years of neglect had left it unsafe and with a perilous future, as the once formally clipped structure had grown even higher than the top of the Mansion itself. It is so nice to see it looking invigorated and healthy
again
, I had every confidence that with careful restoration it would help its future longevity,
but I have to confess that it did look drastic at the time," declared

Graham Rankin, one of Aberglasney's directors.

The Yew Tunnel is thought to have been planted by the Dyer family of Aberglasney, during the 18th century.

 

05. The Dark Hedges, Northern Ireland



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Tucked away in the county of Antrim, these beautiful beech trees are thought to be around 300 years old. According to local records, James Stuart planted the 150 beech trees in the 18th century, to impress guests as they approached his splendid property, Gracehill House.

Legend tells that the spirit of a maid, who lived in a neighboring mansion and died in mysterious circumstances hundreds of years ago, haunts the country road. "Grey Lady" silently floats along the road and quickly disappears as she reaches the last beech tree.

 

04. Bamboo Path, Japan



 

The Sagano Bamboo Forest is located in Arashiyama, a nationally-designated historic site.  The pathway you see in the above picture is 500m long, and runs through one of Japan's most beautiful bamboo forests. No wonder the Agency for Cultural Affairs declared Arashiyama a "Place of Scenic Beauty".   This forest is close to many famous temple and shrines, including the Adashino Nenbutsu-ji Temple.





 





The sound the wind makes, as it blows through the tall bamboo trees,
has been voted by the Japanese authorities as one of 100 must-preserve sounds of Japan.

 

 

03. Tunnel of Love, Ukraine



The Ukrainian Tunnel of Love is actually a two-mile sector of private railway that serves a woodworking plant near Klevan, a small city located in western Ukraine.   I read somewhere that couples pass through this romantic tunnel to make a wish. The myth goes that, if their love is strong and pure, the wish will come true.  May all of your wishes come true, but watch out for the train! It runs three times a day through the leafy tunnel.

 

02. Jacarandas Walk, South Africa



Over 10 million trees keep South Africa's largest city green. According to several unofficial sources, Johannesburg is home to the world's largest man-made forest.  There are at least 49 species of Jacaranda, most of them native to South America (particularly in Uruguay, Brazil, Peru & Argentina) and the Caribbean basin.  The tropical trees were imported to South Africa over one hundred years ago.  October is the month when the flowers of thousands of Jacaranda trees are in full blossom.  This spectacular tree tunnel is located either in Johannesburg or Pretoria,
the Jacaranda City where 70,000+ Jacarandas add vivid splashes of purple-blue to the urban landscape.

 

 

01. Wisteria Tunnel, Japan



As soon as the cherry blossom season ends, the gorgeous Wisteria flowers, that hang in grape-like clusters, take their turn on the Japanese floral calendar. The Fuji Matsuri, or Wisteria Festival, is celebrated each spring in Tokyo, Shizuoka, and Okazaki.  The Ashikaga Flower Park is one of the best places to admire different varieties of wisteria, including double-petaled wisteria, giant wisteria and yellow, white, light pink or purple variants of wisteria.

 









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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

[nidokidos] Bonzai - 1

 



What does the Japanese word bonsai mean?

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Have a nice day!

 With Best Regards: Yogesh Kanakia



"I am thankful to all those who said NO to me

It's Because of them I did it myself..."

 

- Einstein


Don't be afraid to fail because only through failure do you learn to succeed.

- Unknown



Success will never "Lower" its standard to accommodate us. We have to "Raise" Our standard to achieve it.


- Unknown



Relax & Enjoy...

 

Keep your speakers ON

 

It is auto advancing... 





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[nidokidos] GOLDEN TEMPLE OF AMRITSAR

 

 

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The Harmandir Sahib also Darbar Sahib and informally referred to as the Golden Temple is a prominent Sikh Gurdwara located in the city of Amritsar, Punjab, India. It was built by the fifth Sikh guru, Guru Arjan Dev, in the 16th Century. In 1604, Guru Arjan Dev completed the Adi Granth, the holy scripture of Sikhism, and installed it in the Gurdwara.

There are four doors to get into the Harmandir Sahib, which symbolize the openness of the Sikhs towards all people and religions. The present day Gurdwara was rebuilt in 1764 by Jassa Singh Ahluwalia with the help of other Sikh Misl's. In the early nineteenth century, Maharaja Ranjit Singh secured the Punjab region from outside attack and covered the upper floors of the Gurdwara with gold, which gives it its distinctive appearance and English name the Golden Temple.

 

 

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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

[nidokidos] HAPPINESS ...

 

A man asked the Lord Buddha  "I want Happiness"

The Lord Buddha said  "First remove 'I' That's ego"

"Then remove 'Want' That's desire"

"See now you're left with only 'Happiness' "

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[nidokidos] FISHING_PEOPLE

 

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